One
thing I share at all my presentations and with all my clients is the 3 V's of effective communication. The Visual – what is seen, The Vocal –
what is heard, and the Verbal – the actual words said. The most important
element by far - the element that has the greatest impact- is the Visual
element. When I speak about the visual aspect of communication, I usually talk
about body language, posture, gestures, movement and facial expressions. However,
one of the most obvious parts of our visual appearance is our clothing. One of
my interns, Linda Rosenblum writes about what goes into creating an effective
professional wardrobe.
Growing
up, my mother taught me everything that she knew about dressing like a
professional. "Don't show too much leg," "Make sure your shirts
aren't cut too low and your heels aren't too high." Because of this advice, I grew up dressing
the way my mother would dress herself – which wasn’t exactly fashion forward. On the first day of my first professional
job, I walked through the front doors, confident in my outfit choice of a knee length
skirt paired with an oversized blazer. I quickly, learned that this style was totally
outdated. Women in my office were
dressed way more provocatively in tight, ill-fitting outfits and wearing their
highest heels. I was utterly shocked, so
for my next day on the job, I tried to find a suitable middle ground between
old-fashioned and inappropriate.
If
you've been sitting at your desk pondering the effectiveness of your
professional wardrobe, here are FIVE ways to impress your
colleagues, while still making a statement: